Nevertheless... I'm Positive

Accustomed is the right word. Our life is mostly influenced by things we got accustomed too. 'Live with it' is the commonly used tag line.

Most of us dislike our bosses, but we live with it; Most of us dislike our work, but we live with it; Most of us dislike some habit of our partner, but we live with it... We live with that pain, shortcoming, behaviour etc.

We all had uniquely tuned ourselves to live with some disturbing situation. Your life could be much easier, if you apply the word Nevertheless while describing the difficult situations of life.

"I've a difficult boss, nevertheless I am positive." or "I'm going through financial crisis, nevertheless I am positive." or "My business is low or I lost my job or that close friend betrayed me, nevertheless I'm positive."

Friends, happiness is not stagnant, it never stops at one point in life. Rather happiness is collection of moments and always keep moving like some river.

You may be accustomed to some disturbing situations or person but nevertheless you can be still positive.

Remember how as a child, we used to collect and store marbles in crystal jar. If you train yourself using the sentence, ...nevertheless I'm positive, after every situation or person you dislike, then it would act like that situation of collecting marbles and one day you will wake up to observe ... (Whatever shit in life) ... Nevertheless you are happy !!

I wish you a happy life

The process of problem solving

It is when you drive through some steep roads, the engines of your vehicles are more pressurised.  An effort is required more, when you drive through the steep roads, or when you are lifting heavier weights to work out, or if you are pushing the cart through the potholes.

Similarly when you are in the middle of any problem, you are expected to double your efforts. By doubling your efforts, you may be, not able  to solve the problems successfully, but you will surely learn through them successfully.

One big problem with many of us is that, during the problematic situations, we become effort(less)and fall upon sorrow,  instead of being more effort(full) and fall upon new sunshine tomorrow.

A prayer without efforts, during problems, are just as  some bricks, they are useful but you have to put efforts to shape them into some good house.

When you have problems;  stretch your limitations, do not lean upon negativities, gather up your strength and double your efforts.

Cure your problems with effort and not with comfort.

I wish you a happy life,

Life Backstage

Each one of us are like some ocean, different at the surface and different at the depth. The contents in
depth are important than what is observant at the surface. The life in the depth or backstage, where artist prepares for the performance, are the real us.

That successful movie plays on screen, is the result of combined efforts of various people backstage. Someone may appears to you, as happy as lark, but possibly at backstage he is not so happy. Each one of us have our own unique struggles to bear, life hits harder to everyone  backstage.

If you learn to keep yourself calm at the backstage so most likely you are going to give your best performance. If the depth is fine, so would be the surface.

No one ever prays for the struggle or hard times in life, but still we get it. Might be your prayer some time remain unanswered but the struggles would come to you without wishing. We get in life what we deserve. The backstage struggles are in order to make you more deserving.

If some athlete is winning the race, then we all know that it is the result of hard struggles by him or her backstage.

Some preparations you pro-actively do for better performance on stage, some struggles you unexpectedly get backstage as your God foresees better than you, in terms of what experience you may require.

The hardships at backstage are to prepare us for the unexpected battles ahead and never meant to punish.

As the curtains are pulled and you are supposed to give your shot, your confidence would be per say your struggles at backstage. More the struggles, better the performance. Just like during academics the students gets ranking, basis their performance and to be precise basis their preparations backstage.

The struggles are like some water, you may pollute it with your resistance, bad thoughts or negativity or you may purify it and put it to your use with positive mindset and attitude.

Next time if you see someone angry at public place or doing unnecessary argument with you or overreacting, then that simply means that his or her life at backstage is under revision.

I wish you a happy life,
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Believe in Miracles

Hey everybody, hope life is treating you well or to be precise, hope you are taking treatment of life positively. I wanted to share today about miracles of life.

It happens and surely would
have happened with all of us at least once when our luck favoured us uniquely.

Something that we believed difficult to achieve had had manifested magically. As I say this I am sure most of you would recall that incident that magically turned into your favor. That moment we commonly term as good luck.

We could not see several radiations around us with our bare eyes, but we all know that it exist. As common as mobile signals, DTH signals, radio frequencies etc.

The frequency of magic too hover around somewhere in the air and randomly favor the believers around. It is most common research that those who are confident, disciplined and hardworking are likely to live life of their dreams.

Few things in life appear gloomy, impossible to turn off, difficult to face; during that moment a simple hope of seeking the magic could do miracles. You have to believe that situation is temporary, nothing is bigger than your God, your will power can fall any mountain of problems.

Few years earlier if anyone would ask me about my future plans, I used to go numb.  Even when I was in college, I wanted to drop out. No plans at all. I was like some sheep wandering aimlessly. Today, with grace of God, I wear more than one hat. This doesn't happen overnight, the magic took its own time to manifest and perhaps the magic worked better when I believed it.

Friends, do not lose hope when situations are not well. Do not feel inferior under the influence of jealously. The magic in the air is like some season and it falls upon everybody equally. Those who believe are more likely to receive the good luck than the unbelievers.

Rise up, gather your courage, stir up that dead dream within and believe.

I wish you a happy life,
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The right intention

I was watching over to a big garden. It is so peaceful some time to just watch the serenity and feel the presence of God everywhere. My thoughts wander upon the beautiful flowers of different kinds that emerged from the common soil. We all are like those flowers; unique, beautiful, serene and having a common creator.

The soil doesn't restrict us on the type of seed we sow; therefore whatever we sow, so shall we reap. Whatever you intent, will come back to you.

While walking across the barren land, you cannot judge what is sown inside it, until some plant is emerged from it. The kind of intentions within anyone are better known only to two - One is God and the other to that person himself.

You cannot know anyone's intention until the plant of reaction is emerged. Many times it happen to us that we trust somebody, but later we found that he didn't had the right intention as we believed. You have no control on other's intention, but you have full control upon your own intention.

God knows your intention, you are divinely guided if you hold onto right intention irrespective of what people think about you. You may be misunderstood initially but when the seed is emerged, as a result of your intention, everybody would see.

The right intention may not give fruits initially, but in longterm those who have good intention would be comparatively at better place. Your God knows your intention, you cannot hide anything from Him.

You may be not liking some people but you can still keep yourself thinking bad about them. You can either think good about people around you or you can think nothing about them, instead of dwelling upon bad.

Be right and the right things would happen to you. Your intention are like some bullets; you can either harm somebody with them or protect somebody.

Let people do what they want, think what they want and you can still live keeping the right intention.

I wish everybody a great life.
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The (practical) meaning of happiness

Most of my manhours daily are spent on train travelling daily, I go to office and return and spend close to three hours daily on train travelling. Sounds tiring but I enjoy it as I during this period I get time to write, read, listen music & mostly get an opportunity to observe different people.  These local trains are blood vessels of Mumbai, it traverse citizens across the different ends of it.

One thing is common among all passengers which I observe daily. The person standing on the edge of the doors and struggling to get inside, wishes for a comfortable standing ground.  The person standing inside, wishes to get seated. The person sitting, wishes to sit on seat closest to window, the person sitting closest to window, wishes that he could travel by his personal vehicle more comfortably.

There could be different wishes but I am just anticipating a few and idea is to express that each one of us are always wishing to occupy the position of someone ahead of us or rather more comfortable than us.

It is good to dream ahead, make plans for success or wishing to excel. However we attach our happiness to our dreams.

If I buy this house, then I would be happy or if I get married then I would be happy or if I pay my loans off then I would be happy. Friend's, you would always be dreaming or wishing about happiness if you attach reasons to it.  The desires are never ending. You can't plan to be happy.

The true happiness is right now. When you are reading this message or may be when you are travelling or when you are in office, home  or when you are in the middle of some important work. Its right now, wherever you.

If you have hundred reasons to not feel happy, think about that one reason to be happy. If you reverse your life, then you will realise that you are already living with hundreds of your dreams. You have achieved many things which could be reason today to cherish.

The laws of universe are designed in such a way that it is practically impossible that someone has no single reason to be happy.

Write down your reason of happiness and I am sure this list would overpass your list of not being happy.

Be happy, as it is primary source of every successful relationship's, enterprises and accomplishments.

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Pain(full) of lessons

When the sugarcane stick is pushed through the machine, it cracks and divides the juice and the pulp. We all are similar to those sugarcane sticks and we are pushed through the hard times to divide us from bad thoughts (pulp) and to develop our personality (juice).

Not even a millisecond of hard time is deprived of some form of lesson. Each one of us are pushed through the hard time in a unique way. Everybody has their own challenges and a different racetrack to run upon. Most of us get up early in the morning and struggle all day at work and even struggle after returning home. May be who are professionals or those who run their own businesses, does not have to wake up early morning, but they have their own pie of challenges.

Nobody is deprived of slogging. Somebody might be slogging for money, somebody for peace, somebody for love and somebody for somebody else.

Ironically this is life, hard times are part of it. You can stay happy in the midst of any hard time. If you are pushed through some struggle its upon you whether to dwell upon the juice or upon the pulp.

You would find few people always nagging about what went wrong in life, always complaining about their circumstances or job. These are the kind of people who dwell upon the pulp and keep themselves from the lessons of hard times. You might get a lesson but you need an attention to grasp it. Whatever you dwell upon would pulled towards you.

Some of you might be going through rough phase of life but remember that you always be inconvenienced before a breakthrough.

The problems would grow with your endurance level. A problem that appeared big few years earlier might look smaller today. Its not problem which reduced its size; rather your endurance level has enhanced.

Stand by against any circumstance, hold your ground, do not fear, have faith. Tough time is like season it has come to pass. Dwell upon the juice and not upon the pulp.

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Gossiping is injurious to dreams

We all are segregated with star signs, however one thing is common among almost all of us, is that we are concerned more about lives of others. 

We all are imperfect beings but still most of us are engaged in finding faults in others, gossiping about others, and even backbiting sometime.

 
It is not wrong to engage in gossips but you have to realize that people gossiping with you, would probably be gossiping about you. The idea is to engage oneself with more productive activities instead of wasting energy on unwanted talks. 

You cannot stop anyone talking against you, but surely you can stop yourself talking about anyone and instead getting engaged with doing something productive. 

The people with small mindsets have smaller views so don't bother. Having said that, you don't know why someone is behaving weird or gossiping, everyone has its own set of experiences, therefore you should not misinterpret if anyone is not responding the way you expect.

Be right on your part, let your God decide among right or wrong.

Stay happy on your portion of racing track and keep running. Keep dwelling upon your own race

Warm Regards,

Chetan

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Happy Teachers Day

[In dedication to my mother]

God is supreme knowledgeable;
parents, educators, friends, siblings are the teachers.

Life is like some play ground;
Pains, bad times, heartbreak, insolvency, sickness are the coaches.

Teachers day are celebrated on different dates across the world. It is observed on 5th September, since 1962, in India to celebrate the birthday of Dr. Sarvepalli Radhakrishnan.

Even our teachers had teachers. God I believe is the supreme teacher and he has prepared our life syllabus well before we were born.

The syllabus prepared by God, is so dynamically designed that everyone has different ways of learning, different teachers & even different Gods.

Teachers developed by God are parents, good & bad times, friends & foes, health & wealth, pain & gain.

The day we formed in our mothers womb, till the day we depart from earth, every second of our life is coached by God.

Practical teaching of life through pain & losses are far more understandable, explainable, knowledgeable than theoretical teaching.

Embrace the knowledge of life merrily instead of slogging through it. The way we enjoyed our school classrooms; so lovely are the classrooms of life. Teaching is part of our every moment of life.

Take your pains as lessons and thank God for them. Even that person who deceived you, was teacher of your life.

Our reaction to events of life, matter more than the events itself.

The education in life is never ending.

Learn, Share & Grow.

Happy Teachers Day

The benefits of Pain

When I was in college my attention mostly drew upon people who were richer than me. Their bikes, houses, money always attracted me. I always thought and used to ask God that why I don't hail from such family background?

Today however, my attention draw upon people lesser fortunate than me.  Nothing like I am pointing upon wealth, but I am pointing over my experience and to be specific the pains I have endured.

I realised that pains are very essential part of life, without which our growth is stagnant. A seed is required to dug deep into the soil for its journey towards becoming a tree. A stone has to go through harsh crushing to become a diamond. A wood has to endure the hits of sharp axe to change itself into useful forms.

Under painful situations:

Our personality is developed;
Our endurance power is enhanced;
We learn to face challenges;
We value things and people;
We draw closer to God;
We attain maturity;
We get to know our real friend's;
We learn to enjoy life in the midst of difficulties.
 
All of us are not the same person today, like we were few years earlier. The events of pain matured us.

That loss in business...that unfortunate death of a loved one...that lay off from work... that wrong outcome of planning...that heartbreak... that betrayal...that denial of help by somebody close...those days without money...that period of aloofness...that divorce... those sleepless nights and even that accident... All these situations have played a vital role in developing our character.

The pain breaks the stagnation. Every painful situation comes to push you to some new level.

The pain seeks energy to grow. And those energies it draws from your thought's, worries & disappointments.

During every painful situations, you have an option to either allow it to steal your joy Or you can choose to ignore it Or you can face your pain merrily. These are the three paths to your destination. Your travel time to achieve your dreams, would depend upon the path you choose.

I wish you a happy life
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Life Portfolio

The term portfolio is most commonly used in stock markets to indicate the group of different stocks that any particular investor hold. The age & investment capacity & planning term, of an investor, are few factors that shapes the particular portfolio. It is aimed to create profit by investing in diversified sectors so the scale of losses, if emerged, could be controlled.

The life even holds the portfolio that determines our situation. The portfolio has to be balanced, you cannot spend all day just working and expect God to change your situation. You may please note that the prayers just build confidence; the actions are required to realise dreams.

The portfolio of life should include work, time with family, acting upon dreams, some peace and bit of everything that makes one happy.

No body would understand your dreams, challenges, shortcomings, endurance level ... better than you.

No body would be interested to realise your dreams...
better than you.

Your portfolio needs revision if ... you are not satisfied with life... if you feel that sense of something is missing... if you feel lonely and boring... if you lose patience easily... if you feel nobody understands you... if you are liking the life of others... if there is sonething that bothering your heart.

There is nothing wrong with anybody's life. You cannot prevent problems, but you could choose to ignore them.

Most of the problems in life you can choose to ignore and the life would still do better. Face challenges which would make you grow. It is not necessary to face every problem in life just like those potholes in road; you can choose to take some alternate way.

The path of life brings some form of trouble for all; still some people you always find cheerful and the reason behind that is very simple. They revise their life portfolio as per the desires of their heart.

Build a strong life portfolio and Be happy !!he term portfolio is most commonly used in stock markets to indicate the group of different stocks that any particular investor hold. The age & investment capacity & planning term, of an investor, are few factors that shapes the particular portfolio. It is aimed to create profit by investing in diversified sectors so the scale of losses, if emerged, could be controlled.

The life even holds the portfolio that determines our situation. The portfolio has to be balanced, you cannot spend all day just working and expect God to change your situation. You may please note that the prayers just build confidence; the actions are required to realise dreams.

The portfolio of life should include work, time with family, acting upon dreams, some peace and bit of everything that makes one happy.

No body would understand your dreams, challenges, shortcomings, endurance level ... better than you.

No body would be interested to realise your dreams... better than you.

Your portfolio needs revision if ... you are not satisfied with life... if you feel that sense of something is missing... if you feel lonely and boring... if you lose patience easily... if you feel nobody understands you... if you are liking the life of others... if there is sonething that bothering your heart.

There is nothing wrong with anybody's life. You cannot prevent problems, but you could choose to ignore them.

Most of the problems in life you can choose to ignore and the life would still do better. Face challenges which would make you grow. It is not necessary to face every problem in life just like those potholes in road; you can choose to take some alternate way.

The path of life brings some form of trouble for all; still some people you always find cheerful and the reason behind that is very simple. They revise their life portfolio as per the desires of their heart.

Build a strong life portfolio and Be happy !!

Especially for married couples

See if the sequence is right:


'He saw her, she saw him,
Then they saw each other many more times later,
They became friends gradually,
They became good friends,
They started enjoying each others company
They became best friends,
They missed being together,
They started meeting in secret,
They exchanged late night message's, Facebook likes& comment's.

He proposed her one day, after many failed attempts,
She accepted the proposal,
And they indulge into relationship,
They draw closer physically,
He became possessive for her,
She became insecure,
They started fighting on unnecessary subjects,
They drew more emotionally and physically closer,

They got married one day,
They are happy and felt at the top of the world,
He was lesser jealous but more expectant,
She was lesser insecure but more demanding,

They became parents,
Love is divided between she and kid and he and kid.
The unnecessary fights advanced,
Love started to fade between them,
Life of other couples appeared exciting to them,
Physical closeness became just making up and not to make love.
Sacrifices becomes their habit and part of life...
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...they both died one day.

(Death is final destination. So ensure you take care of people today, for whom you'd sacrificed and fought in the past.
Bitter irony is, that we keep gold ornaments and even wine more dearly, irrespective of timelines, than our relationship)

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He realized,
She sobbed,
He hugged her,
She gave him a bigger kiss.

Go & hug your partner,
Do not let the past mistakes, misunderstandings, ego to ruin your relationship.

Build yourself a strong relationship. Share this message with someone you care.

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