I was talking with a friend who was telling me that she would be happier to see her ex husband in trouble. Excerpts of my suggestions if in case, you do have a fire of revenge burning within.
A rapist rapes his own conscience first. A
terrorist firstly blasts, his own understanding about God. A thief firstly steals his own power of hard work. A murderer kills his own peace first. These all are acts of revenge and cowardice.
I am not comparing anyone with anyone, but my intention here is to make you come out of even from the smallest feeling of revenge which is killing a part of you each second.
A revengeful action is just an aftermath of what we lost first within. It firstly harms the person having it, & then to his circle & then probably to the person for whom the feeling took birth.
Revenge has no deadline and until and unless our ego is satisfied we keep harming the person who apparently harmed us first. This is the reason you like to hear bad things about a person who you dislike.
Revenge is one of the dangerous innovative feeling that we can develop. Problem is that we have proper justification to our actions and we don't feel wrong about taking revenge and harming someone.
As I said it has killed something within you first and therefore this is an unworthy business. Nothing is costlier than your peace of mind. Healthy competition would lead you to better life or respectful death; but a revenge would provoke you to produce more anger and not so long, so you would become an anger machine which is fearful, but disrespectful.
We are not here to waste our times on ungainly actions of revenge. We are here to enjoy our lives, spread love & keep our families happy.
Move on from people who disrespected you, didn't understood your love, let you down or hurt you. Start this moment with fresh mind and let the fire of revenge within should doze off with sprinklers of forgiveness.
Peace be upon you!