Sunday 21 August 2016

Let Bygones Be Bygones

When a bird is released from the cage, it doesn't stops to share the experience about its struggling life inside the cage. When the sunshine reaches the darkest end of a tunnel, it rejoices and doesn't argue with the passing darkness.  A raindrop ecstatically skydives and enjoy its 'Present' without bothering itself about past or future.

Problem with most of us is, that we have trapped ourselves in the losses of our past. We have to realise that we can't undo the past but we can surely enjoy this very moment and be hopeful about the future.

Your lover betrayed you in the past or the loss of money you have faced or those unsuccessful plans or those unachieved targets and all the other things that are worrying you today are actually a cage where you are trapped. 

"There is no life in today, if you are still emotional about, what you have lost yesterday."

Remember, the people who lose, are like some warrior who fought and lost. However, warrior doesn't worry himself about losses of past and rather he gather courage again and bounce back with greater efforts. You, (who is reading this message) are a warrior and don't bother yourself about past losses.  Get up & fight back since this new day has brought new opportunities!

The lion doesn't succeed in hunting down its preys all the time. A honey gathered by bees, out of love, is enjoyed by someone else. A female wolf doesn't always succeeds in protecting its cubs from hunting beer. 

All that is said & done, the past is gone and grow yourself out of it. Let bygones be bygones!

Draw that business plan again, revise that idea that didn't worked out last time, fall in love again with someone who loves you for what you are and not for what he wants you to become, speak to that customer again & try to renegotiate terms.

Do not accept failure and do not hover around stale relationship. Undo the paining knots of your past that covers around your heart and face new day with new viewpoint.

If the past was not right that doesn't mean your entire life would be wrong. Much more life is waiting for you.  Just open your heart and draw your hands towards the sunshine.

Happy Sunday

4 comments:

Unknown said...

" Letting go " issues an acquired taste. Some things nourish and others come back to haunt us. Understanding is learning which is which.

Unknown said...

" Letting go " issues an acquired taste. Some things nourish and others come back to haunt us. Understanding is learning which is which.

Author Chetan Dalvi said...

Thank you for your comment

Author Chetan Dalvi said...

Thank you for your comment