Thursday, 19 May 2016

Learn to Stop Feeling Jealous

A star is not jealous with other star shining nearby. A rain drop does not envy with its peer. A leaf fallen on the ground doesn't stops wishing well for other leaves still hanging.  A thorn does not backbite about the rose.

People feel jealous when they see someone else living the life or having the thing they desire for themselves. It is natural to feel jealous and it is nothing wrong about it, as long as the jealousy is leading the person to the racing track. Then the person can work onto his sweats to get what he desires in life. This kind of jealously every winner has experienced once or more in his life.

However if the feeling of jealousy is developing anger, envy & anxiety within you, then you are not just jealous, you are feeling helpless & you are understating your ability to get something which other person possess.  Jealously would kill you from inside, if you water the plant of jealousy with anger instead of hard work. You could either grow the cactus within yourself or the cashew, out of jealousy.

Jealousy is some type of energy which grows or collapses as per your feelings. If you continue feeling jealous, it would continue growing. Rather when you feel jealous out of  proportion, then take a moment and speak to your jealously.

"This feeling is wrong. I should not be feeling so jealous with somebody. We all have equal powers and I can achieve more than I am watching and feeling jealous right now. Almighty, help me to not to feel this way."

You can literally speak with your feelings of jealousy and pass it an order to leave you.  We all are unique and absolutely perfect. Don't feel jealous with somebody's money, beauty, physicality or life. If you feel jealous with somebody's money, then you are keeping yourself from attracting money, since you are creating negative energy, which is sending signal to universe, that you don't have enough money and you would attract what you feel.

A bird doesn't envy a fish and vice a versa. We all have equal energy, that we can use to create our kind of life.

I am the kind of sort, who wish to expand his ears to the height of sky, so I could listen more to God and write. In this process I fail on my progress in office, relationships and many other things, but as long as I am feeling happy, then its fine since I am created for writing. I don't feel envy with my colleagues in office who earn more or get more recognition as my path is different than them. Problem is that that people even feel jealous with few people who are not part of their competition. Like one of friend who works in a call center, feels jealous with his family doctor due to his earnings. Its like wasting the precious energy. We all are like stones under the water; unique and beautiful. Just stop comparing yourself with others and be happy with what you are and have.

The kind of life you live needs great courage. If you are reading this message then that means you have survived all this long. Just be at your best and be happy with the piece of bread you have. There are thousands of people out there, who wish to have your life, your job, your family or your children. We all are lucky. Just feel thankful for what all you have and more will come to you.

I wish you a happy life

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